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Last Updated:May 25, 2025, 09:31 IST
A fulfilling life isn’t about cramming in more; it’s about choosing better. It’s about recognizing that time is finite and treating it as the precious resource it is.
Modern society equates busyness with success. We reply to emails at midnight, multitask through meals, and sacrifice sleep in the name of productivit
In our fast-paced lives today, “busy” has become a badge of honor. We fill our calendars, juggle endless tasks, and wear exhaustion like a medal, yet, at the end of the day, many of us feel strangely empty. Constant activity does not translate to fulfillment; it is not about how much we do, but what and why we do it.
Modern society equates busyness with success. We reply to emails at midnight, multitask through meals, and sacrifice sleep in the name of productivity. But the truth is, activity doesn’t always equal progress. Much of what fills our time is reactive, responding to emails, attending unnecessary meetings, or mindlessly scrolling. These tasks create the illusion of work without actually moving us forward. Real productivity isn’t about doing more; it’s about doing what truly matters.
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Fulfillment doesn’t come from checking off tasks; it comes from engagement. Think about the difference between a day spent rushing through chores and a day spent on something meaningful, like a creative project, a deep conversation, or helping someone in need. One leaves you drained; the other leaves you energized. The problem isn’t effort itself, but effort without purpose.
Many of us stay busy because it feels safer than stopping. When we pause, we might have to confront uncomfortable questions: Am I where I want to be? Is this how I want to spend my time? It’s easier to keep moving than to face those thoughts. But without reflection, we risk spending years on autopilot, mistaking motion for meaning.
Dr Chandni Tugnait, MD (A.M) Psychotherapist, Life Alchemist, Coach & Healer , Founder & Director, Gateway of Healing shares how we can start breaking free from busyness:
1. Question your ‘have-tos’: Not everything on your to-do list is essential. Ask yourself: Does this actually matter? What happens if I don’t do it? You’ll often find that many tasks are self-imposed or based on others’ expectations, not real priorities.
2. Protect your focus: Constant distractions fracture our attention. Try setting boundaries, turning off notifications, scheduling blocks of uninterrupted time, and resisting the urge to multitask. Depth, not speed, leads to real satisfaction.
3. Schedule empty time: The 30 minutes before a meaningful activity determines its quality. Before time with loved ones or creative work, block a buffer of literal nothingness, no prep, no transition tasks. Arrive at important moments from rest, not from rushing.
4. Institute a misery audit: Track not just time spent, but how each activity makes you feel on a scale from “drains me” to “fuels me.” You’ll discover that certain “productive” habits are actually emotional vampires in disguise, while seemingly trivial activities might be secretly nourishing.
Remember, being busy isn’t the problem; being busy with the wrong things is. A fulfilling life isn’t about cramming in more; it’s about choosing better. It’s about recognizing that time is finite and treating it as the precious resource it is.
So the next time you find yourself drowning in tasks, pause. Ask: Is this how I want to spend my one wild and precious life? If the answer isn’t a resounding yes, it might be time to rethink what “busy” really means.
- First Published:
May 25, 2025, 09:31 IST
SOURCE : NEWS 18
